Bereavement Gifts

March 8, 2009 · Filed Under · Comment 

How to Find Perfect Bereavement Gifts

Finding bereavement gifts, to give to the family of a deceased person, should not be a tedious task.  Most of the time, simple things can mean a lot to them during their time of grief.  There are different types of items you can choose from.

Your choice will depend to some degree on what your relationship was with the deceased, as well as your relationship with his family and friends.  The closer you are to them, the more personal it should be.

Bereavement gifts can be religious, visual, musical, horticultural, material, or even edible.  They can be homemade, bought from a store, or specially custom-designed.  The price of these items may be expensive or inexpensive.  Your final choice will all depend on what you have in mind.  Your gift can be anything, but the presents you choose should be appropriate for the occasion, and tasteful.

If you still don’t have any clue as to what to give, the following are some ideas you might use:

Visual or Musical Tributes

A visual or musical tribute can be a good bereavement gift.  This does not necessarily cost a lot of money, though creating it can take a lot of time.  It is, however, an extremely personal gift which shows that the deceased and his or her family are truly in your thoughts.  A musical tribute can consist of the deceased person’s favorite music or artist.  It can be a collection of funeral songs, or it can consist of spiritual and uplifting pieces.  Other examples of visual tributes include video montages, photo albums, scrapbooks, and collages.

Horticultural Bereavement Gifts

Many people – the majority, in fact, choose to give horticultural bereavement gifts.  These can be plants, flowers, or other greenery.  There are certain types of plants which symbolize peace and grieving. Where flowers are concerned, it can be roses, lilies, carnations, or orchids.  Saplings which symbolize bereavement include the Scottish Pine, the English Oak, the Mountain Ash and the Silver Birch.  As for bushes, these can include the Pussy Willow, the Rose, Mountain Laurel, Flowering Quince, and Lilac.

Material Bereavement Gifts

These are the types of bereavement gifts which can be purchased at regular stores (offline or online).  Typical items which may be given during the grieving period include jewelry, art, angels, outdoor items, plaques, and books.  Jewelry items can include cremation necklaces, mothers’ rings, birthstone earrings, charm bracelets, lapel pins, and cross necklaces.  Under the category of general art, we have figurines, statues, murals, paintings, photographs, and plaques.  Outdoor items include engraved stones, garden benches, and wind chimes.  Prayer books, the Bible, poetry books, and the like, can also be given to the grieving party.

Edible Bereavement Gifts

One of the most personal types of bereavement gift is the edible kind.  It would mean a lot to those left behind, if you took some time to prepare food for them.  Something as simple as baked goods, or prepared meals, ready to freeze, can show them that you care.  During times of mourning, the family and friends of the deceased might have less time and attention to spend on cooking and caring for their personal health, but a lack of nourishing food can make the loss even more difficult to bear.  If you choose a high-quality, comforting, and even nourishing food, your gift can truly help them.

Submit Your Poetry

February 25, 2009 · Filed Under · Comments Off 

If you would like to submit your poetry for publication on this blog, you are welcome to do so.

Simply register for a free account, and post your poem. When you are ready for your poem to appear on this blog, hit “Publish.”

We will see your poem the next time we log on to the admin area, so that we can approve it for publication. However, we won’t be notified automatically when your poem has been submitted. So if you would like to have your poem looked at as soon as possible, please send as an email to this email address or through this contact form.

A Few Rules

  1. Any poetry you post must be written by you. No plagiarism, please.
  2. Please post poetry in keeping with the theme of this blog. This includes memorial poetry, funeral poetry, or any poetry written in memory of a loved one. If you have any other type of poetry which you would like to publish, you may submit it to one of our sister sites, Free Poems or Poems and Stories.
  3. If you would like to allow others to use your poems (such as in memorial services, letters to friends, or even cards or plaques) please state this at the end of your poem. Also state your terms of use. (We recommend that, if you allow others to use your poems, you minimally state that they must credit the original author.)
  4. When you publish a poem, you may include one or two links back to your site(s) with your poem, provided that it is your personal site or is otherwise relevant to poetry, the arts, or the general theme of this blog.
  5. You retain all copyrights to your poems. We will not use your poem outside this site without your permission.
  6. We do not wish to publish heavily erotic or sexually oriented material, obsessive obscenity, racism, hate, discrimination, writing which seems to condone suicide or crime or drug use, anything else which we deem inappropriate, or anything which violates the law.
  7. Any poetry you post on this blog is at your own risk. By posting poetry on this blog, you agree to indemnify and hold us unaccountable for anything that may possibly go wrong as a result of your having posted poetry on this blog. We ourselves will not act to harm you, or try to violate your copyrights in any way.
  8. We reserve the right to modify, add, or delete the tags or categories which are assigned to the poetry in this site.
  9. We reserve the right to remove any links in your posts, which we deem inappropriate.
  10. You are encouraged to comment on other poems which have been published in this blog.
  11. We reserve the right to publish or not publish any poem you submit, as we see fit. We reserve the right to correct obvious spelling mistakes or obvious errors in formatting (such as occurs when people copy their work directly from a Word Document into the blog, which is not advised).
  12. We reserve the right to make any changes to our blog which we see fit, and to add, delete, or rearrange the poetry and content herein, but without changing the content of the poems, except in the case of obvious formatting or typographical errors. We reserve the right to include any content we choose, alongside your poetry.

Questions?

If you have any questions about these rules, or encounter any difficulties relating to this site, please contact us at this email address or through this contact form.

Thank you for your participation!

Daring Time

You granted me childhood
Allowed me to err

You showed me life
Revealing the secrets

You read my soul
Unwarranted love

*******

You took a path
I could not follow

A right reclaimed
and granted
a thousandfold

*******

Time, re-created,
Is now a gate onto the future

And beyond that gate
Your future has now begun

by Els van den Eynde

Next Page »